2008年11月17日星期一

My Prayer


I pray you'll find your way,
to where you want to go,
And hope that you'll be wise,
In times when you don't know

Let this be my prayer
As you go your way
find your self the grace,
in a place where you'll be safe

I pray you'll find your light
And hold it in your heart
When stars go out each night
you'll find your hope in life,

Let this be my prayer
When shadows fill your day
find your self the grace,
in a place where you'll be safe

(*dedicated to my dearest friend who has lost his way in life)

2008年11月16日星期日

Merry Christmas~

你知道这里是哪里吗? 是巴黎? 汉堡? 还是法兰克福? 哈哈...甭瞎猜了,因为我也不知道, 就在搜索美丽的圣诞气氛图片时发现的,是欧州某个城市的圣诞市场吧?

从小就对圣诞节有着无限的憧憬,除了有美丽的圣诞树,很多的礼物,香喷喷的烤火鸡之外,更令我觉得难人可贵的,就是散发自平安夜里的温情,还有那一份充满爱的感觉。

出来社会工作了,圣诞节仿佛就变成了是一个令人有充分理由挥霍的商业佳节,琳琅满目礼品,以及日益创新的相关商品仿佛为这纪念主耶稣的日子里注入了崭新的诠释,让自己对这儿时常年期盼的温馨佳节也开始感到陌生。

究竟在地球的另一端人们是怎么样庆祝圣诞节的呢? 白色圣诞是否有诗情画意般的魅力?在雪花纷飞圣诞夜里,是否会显得额外的浪漫美丽?

我不知道,也不明瞭。只相信在欧美风情的圣诞夜里,能够找回内心的执著,找回属一个温馨洋溢的白色圣诞节。

明年陪我过一个白色圣诞节,好吗? Merry Christmas~

写于25岁的冬天

2008年11月14日星期五

100分


原来成功的定义非常简单,就只需要100分哦 ^0^ 这从小就明白的道理,没想到会在离开了校园多年之后,重新刷新对100分看法。

100分是什么? 未曾犯错的天才?还是完美天使的体现?都不是这么1回事。原来,100分是一种成功的指标,当你越接近100分时,你想要得到的成功与梦想也就指日可待了。

“废话,谁不知道100分是最好,最完美的?”你说。稍安勿躁...其实,这里所说的100分,只是行动的指标。

当你懂得将行动系统化时,你就能够更清楚地了解自己每天要采取什么行动与步骤来赢得自己的梦想。停下脚步,细心地为自己每项积极的行动标上分数...半分...1分..2分。

经过这样慢慢的累计....当月底总结时,所累积的分数超过100分时,你就知道,自己梦寐以求的理想,已逐渐地实现了。
没有完美的100分
只有付出的100分

2008年11月13日星期四

When There's Love


I had a brief but discussion with Raymond. It was brief, though, it was a meaningful discussion that helped me to further understand myself and how to make my dreams come true.

Too often we spend our time to focus and indulge into other people's success story, and too often we keep on cracking our heads to learn about all the skills and knowledge required to achive our dreams.

When all of us understand about that the price to pay to get us to where we want to go, but somehow, we are often pulled back by the internal resistance that stop us from taking whatever necessary to soar high.

Are we not capable? are we not ready to pay the price ? or are we not clear about what we really want? The truth is, we are just neglected about our Spirit and Soul, the essesntial elements drive us to excel all time.

Just imangine this yourself, when you want to achive a wonderful goal, you will crack your head to come out with all the neccessary strategies to get it done. But sometimes you are just too lazy and demotivated to take the right actions (ie: meet 5 prospects a day).

"wat's wrong with me" you asked. "Why can't I get my result when I have all the powerful tools, system and supports from the company" or is it that,"am I just some lazy joker who steal the god-given time from myself...". As you doubt, the bad feelings devour your last breath of courage. You are now a guilty person and there goes your day.

Please understand that success is nothing more than the outcome that reflecting your mental state. While people can easily name tens of methods to achieve success, doing the necessary approaches are poles apart. This means that, eventhough you know about taking the right actions logically, you'll still reluctant in doing it if you do not internalise your goal into the burning desire and expectation in your life. Untill then, knowing and doing things are, and will always in conflict.

When there is love (on your goal), nothing is too much trouble and there's always time!

By Chris Koay
(Nov, 2008)

2008年11月12日星期三

想哭~


“想哭来试探自己麻痹了没~”

我想要最好的,我就必须作最大的付出...
这种kanasai的道理,你不说我也明白!
只是不懂为什么,就是有难以克服的逃避心态...

~克服懒惰,克服拖延,要积极取进,做事情要快, 培养高效率人士的7种习惯,学习聆听,学习表达,学习处理人格态度,学习跟客户打好关系,学习听懂客户的玄外之音,学习规划工作,学习设定目标,学习注重每日的日常生活活动,学习在被人拒绝之后继续前进,学习跟你不认识的人甚至是讨厌你的人沟通,学习进修,学习不抗拒任何的讲座与训练,学习锻炼自己的思维,学习防止同行对你客户乱乱讲话,学习将想法实践,学习销售技巧,还要不断的学习超越自己...

现在你们终于明白了吧,一个成功的寿险业代理员根本就是Super Man!!!! 人家赚再多的钱也是因该的啦~当你们每天的睡到爽爽时,人家4-5点就起来冥想,重新为自己的目标注入能量,集中尽力去工作,当你们每天放工回家看戏休息时,人家又要检讨今天的工作与活动,看有什么可以改善的地方~~~ 这种的精神与压力,不是每个人都可以接受的!!!

这条路很苦,很难~~~ 但是,马的! 俺下定决心誓死方休!!! 只有成功,没有退路!!! 我就不信,这个世界上还有学不懂的东西!!!!!

好想哭...但,我不认输!

煎熬。蜕变














我变得积极正面,
我变得毫不随便,
我变得细心甚言,
我变得不再狡辩...

我真的,渴望蜕变

对过去不再眷恋
不抗拒艰难磨练,
将生命细心体验,
只为了美好经验...

蜕变的历练,苦不堪言...
我不会后悔, 不曾埋怨.

但愿你能陪伴我转变,
不对我感到心烦讨厌,
细心聆听我心中景愿,
让我陪你...陪你到永远。

2008年8月31日星期日

谢谢你!

谢谢你无时无刻地提醒,
让我了解我不属于这里...
面对斤斤计较的你,
苦了自己....

百般的误解,无情的对白
一次次地考验我的忍耐...
冷眼对待,尽情伤害...
我已慢慢地学会对待
答应自己,总会有那么一天
不再无奈...不被伤害
让你了解我的厉害!!!

2008年3月29日星期六

The Secret Paths to Financially Independence

During my time as a journalist with both Oriental Daily and The Star , I had many opportunities to meet people from different background, ranging from those stucked in twilight zones and those tycoons and multimillionaires who are enjoying a noble life.

"What makes them so different", i muttered to myself, and it took years before I finally found the convincing answers, and something that I would dubbed as the secret paths to financially independence.

Regardless of when you begin, it is better to be late than never. The following are some practical methods for ones to achieve financial success. Well, just keep in mind that this secret path has been invented by no one but merely the experiences from those who had already made it to their desired financial status.

1. Spend Less Than What You are Earning

No matter how much you are earning, you can never achieve financial freedom if you keep on getting yourself in debts. For instance, I have a client who are earning over RM 100K monthly, but guess what, 60% of his income will go to his debtors account, from various types of loans and other personal debts. Just remember that being overspent even a few hundreds Ringgit a month can have a cumulative impact over the course of your daily life.

2. Set a Monthly Savings Goal

A banker once told me that the reason why 90% of the people fail to achieve the financial success because they didn't bother save money for their future. Some of these people are too naive to believe that they could build their financial empire overnight, while others are simple didn't know a proper savings method. Always put aside at least 20% of your paycheck for savings before you finished them up, this is a often a perimeter that will determine your to have either an enjoyable or miserable life in the future.

3. Pay Off Credit Card Debt

Credit card debt is the number one obstacle to getting ahead financially. Those little pieces of plastic are so easy to use, and it's so easy to forget that it's real money we're dealing with when we whip them out to pay for a purchase, large or small. Despite our good resolves to pay the balance off quickly, the reality is that we often don't, and end up paying far more for things than we would have paid if we had used cash. Contact us for advice if you have problems with paying your credit card debts.


5. Secure Your Earning Power

Too many people are talked into making more money for a decent life, whether it is by investment or laboring work. However, it's also important that you have enough insurance to protect your dependents and your income in the case of death or disability. Guess who will pay for the bills when we are lying on bed?


6. Update Your Will

80% of Malaysians don't have a will, or, in other words, don't bother to have one. This explains why over RM 40 billions of private assets in Malaysia are leave to no one after the owners had passed away. So, If you have dependents, no matter how little or how much you own, you need a will. If your situation isn't too complicated, you can also contact us for will writing services.

Protect your loved ones. Write a will.




2007年10月30日星期二

这里,那里

人生就像一场戏,因为有缘才相聚;
相扶到老不容易,是否更该去珍惜。

不记得在哪看过这首诗,忆难忘。
经过努力才发现,最大的敌人是内心的障碍。
定睛仰望设定的目标...去除了杂音...心情平静
藏在心底,握在手里...梦想...不远矣
我愿意付上从零开始的代价,来换取想要得未来!

2007年8月30日星期四

对不起,我爱你。

无心的言语,
伤害了你。
对不起...
我依然深爱着你。
~一心,一意,一辈子。

2007年8月29日星期三

给你

很爱很爱你,
很希望跟你在一起,
想把最好的一切留给你,
带给你无限的惊喜,
想把你紧紧地拥入怀里,
只可惜...
你不在这里。

将不好的一切蕴藏在心底,
让沉重的思绪停留在时空里,
承担一切仿佛轻而易举,
不晓得...
我是在疼你。

在你冰冷的眼里,
容不下瑕疵的知己,
面对蜕变的你,
冰冷的雨...
我看清了自己。

坠落到谷底,
不愿再想你,
静静地..
消失在风里。

2007年8月6日星期一

声音

每每敲打键盘想为在克里斯城堡增添乐趣时,总是不由自主地掉入思绪的漩涡,
进入到1种既陌生又熟悉的世界~ 仿佛听见1股熟悉的声音,原自自己内心的深处。
在那里可以清晰地听见自己的声音,慢慢地为自己身上的绳索脱绑,没有一丝的杂音,
很宁静。。。很平静。。。享受着身心合一的完美境界。

是祸,是福,还请各位看官赐教啦...

这就是生命?

直到最近我才发现原来生命就是这么1回事。
它可以悄悄地来,悄悄地走,犹如徐志摩所说的~不带走1片云采。
七月份的日子过得还算精彩,在短时间内体会了百感交集~

曾以为自己活得潇洒自在,走到尽头才发现自己的无奈,
卡在内心深处的情感无法释怀,直到我发掘了真爱的精彩。
百般体会,百般感觉,只因为我还存在。
对于陌生的世界却又万分期待,临终的那1刻何时会来?
不想让生活过得青青菜菜,玄学奥秘都想弄个明白。
坚持到底是我信念的依赖,探索美丽世界,崭新的未来。

2007年7月24日星期二

考虑考虑



长了这么大,第一次认真考虑买房子的事宜。
在跟朋友约好之后,兜过了13。7公里的大桥,再绕上大约15分钟便来到了JURU HEIGHT。
记得刚开始听闻它的名字时并没产生任何的好感,总觉得在两岸之间除了大桥,还有永远无法横跨的百莫达湾。
冒着失踪的风险,战战兢兢,终于在距离AUTO CITY不远处找到了目的地。
在鸟笼里呆久候,对于建立在平地的排屋有着既喜欢的又陌生的熟悉感觉。
很喜欢它gated community的概念以及两层半的设计,在顶楼还有1个拥有空中花园的舒适房间,要是在上面多费些心思来精心布置,不仅可以有容纳超过10个人的小花园,甚至也可以在某个角落,盖上小小的亭子,摆设传统木制桌椅,加上共观星赏月用的望远镜,生活之写意,可想而知。
但在鸟笼呆久候,却发现两层半也有不及鸟笼之处-3楼4房的设计实在不是安顿老妈与我的最佳环境,即使是老姐偶尔回家,也还有相当的空间剩余,空置不用也未免太可惜,如此大的房子,真要装修还可得继续给荷包放血。
时间在浏览与琢磨下慢慢流失,在逗留了1小时多后,激情之后终需冷静思考,尽管当天的salesman尽力展现出为糊口而流露的笑容,我依然只能向他说声“考虑考虑。”
唯一值得他欣慰的是,这次我真的在考虑。
这是不是我的理想家园? 我是否已经做好承担房贷的准备?怎么样才能让这个家园掀开美满的序幕?
也许,所欠缺的,就仅仅是位房子的女主人了:P 嗯...考虑考虑。

写于24岁的夏天

2007年7月12日星期四

卡通脸

刚从海边跟卡通朋友吃完饭回来,点了炒面、炸苏东还有1小块的烧鱼。
尽管曾极力拍胸口保证那是全槟城最好吃的炸苏东,但看她努力地将香脆外层一片片掰下,心理自然明白,全槟第一的魅力对她的影响显然不大。
听着她说聋老板的故事,和幽默风趣的表达方式,真的开始对这位年轻朋友刮目相看。
看她平时1副无所谓+傻傻的样子,原来在充满与趣味的脸蛋下,竟有那么多的点子坚持。

“我非常爱钱,但是我只爱我自己赚来的钱。”
“我想到电台工作,所以我需要文凭来跨过门槛。”
“我想要开电视台...不要看我无理头的样子,我是认真的。。。”

祝愿你在中国能够找到圆梦的机会,要是有天真的开了电视台,可要记得好好回馈我这个鼓励你圆梦的朋友哦,(马币1百万就好了,哇哈哈哈哈),而我也会永远记得你那1张风趣幽默的但是又拽拽的卡通脸。

2007年7月3日星期二

喜欢


喜欢你了解我的心底
也喜欢你渐渐靠近身影
漆黑夜里如影随形

喜欢你呼喊我的声音
也喜欢你渐渐微笑眼睛
不同回应如此亲近

慢慢流露感情
慢慢埋藏痕迹
紧抓着一切甜蜜
就算心不在意
不过是骄傲离去
看星星 听下雨
我已开始想念你*

喜欢你永远不变深情
也喜欢你像孩子般无心
愿意为你没有距离

喜欢小小车上的拥挤
整个世界彷佛凝聚冷静
惦记着你 喜欢着你 属于你

摘自:李心洁歌词

无聊过头


途经泰国王宫外,看见阿兵哥在站哨的情景煞是有趣。
在忙碌的人潮中,他就是一动不动的站在那里,
细心体会当下时间流逝。。嘀嗒。。嘀嗒。。。
在他脑海中会浮现什么画面,心里是否有百般的滋味?
这些我都不知道,只觉得,能够在旁边看他呆呆被老师
罚站的模样,实在够爽~~~~~娃哈哈哈哈哈哈

2007年7月2日星期一

朦胧美


很喜欢朦胧的感觉
雾里看花,一切仿佛都会
变得更美。

平安、喜乐


在泰北的旅途中拍下这张照片,
看着伯父的脸孔真的能让人有种
回到过去的感觉。脸上的皱纹,
点带出的不仅是生活的历练,
深深地烙下的更是每段
刻骨铭心的故事。从军,归农,
到异乡漂泊奋斗了数十载,
见证了一个时代的开始与终结,
执著的梦,由荣华富贵
潜移默化成平凡安定。
祝愿你在有生之年,
能找到真正属于你的
平安、喜乐。